It is always difficult saying goodbye to someone we love and cherish. Family and friends must say goodbye to their beloved Thomas Grande (Pearl River, New York), born in West Islip, New York, who passed away at the age of 59, on February 9, 2023. Leave a sympathy message to the family in the guestbook on this memorial page of Thomas Grande to show support.

He was predeceased by: his father Louis Grande; his daughter Angelina; and his siblings-in-law, Thomas W. Poidevin (Linda), Charles Poidevin, Kieran Murray and Kathi Meyerson.

He is survived by: his children, Nicole and Thomas; his mother Veronica Grande; his wife Lorraine Poidevin Grande "Lori"; his siblings, Steve (Nancy), Bill (Michelle), Luanne Alese (Vinny), Mary O'Dea (John), Lawrence (Janine), Anthony (Kris), John (Gina) and Christopher (Kristina); his sisters-in-law, Mary Poidevin, Beth Murray and Anne Chesterman (Michael); and his nieces and nephews, Jack, Natalie, Noah, Samantha, Madison, Vincent, Christopher, Danny, Clare, Conner, Brian, Bridget, Anthony, Nicholas, Kaileigh, John Paul, Louis, Stella, Joseph, Jenny, Rebecca, Ben, Paul, Caroline, Tina, Matt and Kyle.

The family asks, if you are so inclined, that in lieu of flowers you consider making a donation to Shriner's Hospital for Children or St. Jude's Hospital for Children.

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Sorce Assumma & Shankey Funeral Home

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February 12, 2023

Gina Grandville lit a candle

“My heart is heavy for you and your family at this very difficult time. I offer my deepest sympathy and much love, Gina Grandville”

February 11, 2023

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February 11, 2023

Sandra Anojulu sent flowers

“In loving memory of Thomas Grande, Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss.”

February 11, 2023

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February 12, 2023

hari vunnava wrote a sympathy message

“I am still in shock and disbelief that Tom is no more. He had a very pleasant personality and it was great working for him. He will be dearly missed. Deepest condolences to the Grande family. May he attain eternal peace! 🙏”

February 12, 2023

Dave Russo wrote a sympathy message

“Dear Lori and Family. I value greatly the years Tom and I worked together, and our friendship after. Amongst other things , Tom was always humble and kind. Always fair, empathetic and caring for associates at work and his friends. He was truly a special person , and I am a better person having known him. We wish you all some comfort in knowing how he left such a positive impact on so many people, and he is at peace now smiling knowing that. Peace and Love to you all. Dave and Gloria Russo”

February 12, 2023

Someone wrote a sympathy message

“In loving memory of Thomas Grande, Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.”

February 11, 2023

Irina Markovsky wrote a sympathy message

“Saying goodbye to my dear UBS colleague of many years. My best boss who became a friend and a mentor. Top notch professional and human being. Thanks Tom for everything , you helped my career in so many ways. I will never forget you. RIP”