It is with great sadness that we announce the death of Howard W. Dillingham Jr. of Nineveh, New York, who passed away on January 24, 2023, at the age of 72, leaving to mourn family and friends. Family and friends are welcome to leave their condolences on this memorial page and share them with the family.

He is survived by: his wife Barbara Dillingham (Thackray); his son Kyle H. Dillingham; his daughter-in-law Carmen Balbuena Dillingham; his granddaughter Amelie Ester Dillingham of Swampscott, MA.; his sister-in-law Theresa Dillingham; his nephew Jared Dillingham of Phoenix, AZ; his brother Drew Dillingham (Adrienne); his aunt Midge Belz; and his brothers, Paul Dillingham of Windsor, NY and Wayne Dillingham of Long Island.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to Nineveh Presbyterian Church, PO Box 115, Nineveh, NY 13813, Mercy House Hospice of the Southern Tier, 212 N. McKinley Ave, Endicott, NY 13760, or Pancreatic Cancer Action Network (PanCan), 1500 Rosecrans Ave, Suite 200, Manhattan Beach, CA 90266.

Funeral arrangement under the care of
Osterhoudt-Madden Funeral Home

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January 26, 2023

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“In loving memory of Howard W. Dillingham Jr., Our prayers and love are with you. We have countless loving memories of Howard and all the good he brought to the world. His eternal joy is well earned.”

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69 Maple St, Harpursville, NY 13787

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Nineveh, NY 13787

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