Alfa Lourdes Mess Obituary
It is with deep sorrow that we announce the death of Alfa Lourdes Mess of Kearny, New Jersey, born in Newark, New Jersey, who passed away on April 8, 2021, at the age of 64, leaving to mourn family and friends. Leave a sympathy message to the family in the guestbook on this memorial page of Alfa Lourdes Mess to show support.
She was predeceased by: her mother Lourdes Castellanos; her sister Betsy Dilla; and her nephew Arthur. She is survived by: her children, Carl Mess (Maria) and Michelle Baeza (Roy); her siblings, Barbara Avan, Evelyn Dilla, Elizabeth Aranjo, Tito Dilla and Alex Dilla; her grandchildren, Arielle, Justin, Brianna, Alyssa, Gabriella, Jacob, Giovanna and Joshua; and her nieces and nephews, Elizabeth, Jay, Alana, Victor, Michael and Keira. She is also survived by cousins and friends.
Even during times of social distancing, anyone who has suffered a loss deserves love and support more than ever before.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in her memory to Nassan's Place, a local non-profit that assists children and their families affected by Autism in and around under-served communities like Newark.
