Norman A Smith Jr DDS, MS Obituary
Beloved father, husband, brother, uncle, cousin and friend to thousands, Norman Autry Smith, Jr., went home to be with the Lord on June 1, 2020. Norman was a highly respected endodontist in Parkville, Missouri, where he practiced for 38 years performing root canals on nearly 40, 000 patients.
Norman was born Feb. 16, 1955, to Norman Autry and Nancy (Kennedy) Smith in Purcell, Oklahoma. He always excelled at everything he did. Early in his childhood he learned to love the outdoors, OU football and academics. He played the saxophone and football for the Purcell High School Dragons and was recognized for his leadership abilities. Like his dad, who was a state legislator, Norman was able to remember names and details about people. He made friends wherever he went.
After the family moved to Edmond, Oklahoma, Norman graduated high school as valedictorian in 1973 and entered Westminster College in Fulton, Missouri. He was a member of the Sigma Alpha Epsilon fraternity, a legacy of his maternal grandfather John Edward Kennedy. He married Kimberly Frederich.
Norman continued his education and graduated magna cum laude from the University of Missouri – Kansas City Dental School in 1981, just a few weeks after his son Norman Autry Smith III, was born. Norman studied endodontics at Northwestern University in Chicago and then set up practice in the Kansas City area. Norman married Ilse Straub in 1989 and together they had son Spencer Kennedy Smith and daughter Haley Mable Smith.
Norman married Anita Vanetti in 2014 and proudly became Papa to Halen Grey Smith and Bode Emerson Smith. His children and grandchildren were his greatest joys. Dr. Smith was recognized as a leading endodontist and was practicing in Parkville at the time of his death.
Norman’s life was defined by his faith, love of family and country, and passion for hunting and fishing. Some of his favorite moments were at his grandparents’ home in Chipita Park, Colorado, catching rainbow trout with his Grandpa John. He spent a summer in Alaska with his Uncle “Eddie Bear” and Aunt Charlotte, where he honed his fishing and hunting skills. He passed that love for the outdoors on to his children.
Scouting was also a lifelong commitment for Norman. He received the Silver Beaver Award, which recognizes Scouters of exceptional character who have provided distinguished service within a council. Both his sons are Eagle Scouts.
Norman’s heart for the Lord led him to launch the Brothers in Christ Men’s Ministry in 2014 through the Vineyard Church in Smithville. He was known for his love and passion for helping men grow stronger in their faith and positively impact their families and communities.
Norman was preceded in death by his parents and beloved brother-in-law Kevin Lowery. He is survived by his wife, Anita Vanetti; son Norman, daughter-in-law Carrie and grandsons Halen and Bode; son Spencer and daughter-in-law Mikiko; daughter Haley; sisters Julie Lowery and Mandy Gauldin and brother-in-law Scott; nephew David (Jennifer) Lowery; nephew Eric (Daniela) Lowery; niece Emma Lowery; niece Anna (Dalton) Handy; nephew Andy Gauldin; and great nephews Kevin Scott Lowery, Eric James Lowery and Ian Martinez.
Visitation will be held Friday, June 12th, from 5 p.m. to 8 p.m. at Vineyard Church in Smithville. A Celebration of Life will begin at 10 a.m. Saturday, June 13th, also at Vineyard Church, 12300 Arrowhead Trafficway, Kansas City, MO 64165, off of Hwy 169. The service will be limited to no more than 300 in attendance under social distancing guidelines (see the note below) and will be live streamed through the Vineyard Church website at vckc.com/normansmith for those who wish to watch from home. There will be a private burial service immediately following the funeral.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to The Fallen Outdoors, which organizes outdoor hunting and fishing adventures for veterans who may be suffering from physical or mental disabilities, https: //thefallenoutdoors. com. Please indicate that you would like to make the donation in the name of Norman A. Smith in the "write a note" section; or donate to Hillcrest Platte County, http://www.hillcrestplatte.org, a transitional housing program providing a Christian environment that helps families in crisis move from homelessness to self-sufficiency.
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