Lois Trefethen Obituary

We are sad to announce that on July 14, 2020 we had to say goodbye to Lois Trefethen of South Windham, Connecticut. You can send your sympathy in the guestbook provided and share it with the family. You may also light a candle in honor of Lois Trefethen or send a beautiful flower arrangement to the funeral service.

She was predeceased by: her parents, John Ruff and Mable Ruff. She is survived by: her husband Merlin L. Trefethen; her sons, John Chapman Jr. (Helene Chapman) of South Windham, CT and Thomas Chapman (Diana Chapman) of Oxford, PA.; her grandchildren, John Chapman III (Erin Chapman), Jennifer Chapman, Anthony Phillips-Chapman (Emilly Phillips-Chapman), Caitlin Townsley and Emily Chapman; her great grandchildren, Jace, Sophia and John VI; her stepchildren, Cynthia Lemay (Rich Lemay), Randall Trefethen (Christy Trefethen), James Trefethen, Kathy and Merlin Trefethen (Meryl Trefethen); and her siblings, George Ruff (Lynn Ruff) of Cape Cod, MA, Doris Wyman of Coventry, CT and John Ruff (Lorrie Ruff) of Scotland, CT..

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