Brenda Joyce Bender Obituary
We are sad to announce that on November 13, 2019, at the age of 68, Brenda Joyce Bender (Kansas, Oklahoma) passed away. Leave a sympathy message to the family on the memorial page of Brenda Joyce Bender to pay them a last tribute.
She was predeceased by: her parents, Lois LaVaun "Bonnie" and Billy Gene Tatum; her stepfather Norman R. Carlson; and her stepbrother Johnny Carlson. She is survived by: her pet Comet; her husband Mike; her daughters, Margaret King (Michael) of Broken Arrow and Monica Bender (Theresa) of Fort Lauderdale, FL; her granddaughters, Veda Jewel Pierce, Alexis Fortson and Morgan Michelle King; her siblings, Janis Tatum Bates and Frank Tatum; and her stepsiblings, Jackie Carlson Diffenbaugh and Tony Carlson. She is also survived by nieces and nephews and several "adopted" daughters.
In lieu of flowers, the family suggests a donation to the charity of your choice.
